When you’re so talented you trip and fall over flat ground… are you grateful you didn’t have to surf a stairwell?
When you you know rubber denial works – because you grew up peddling unpopular religion. It’s easier to make no yes. Are you grateful you had it harder?
When you gently sense all your sins according to others yet realize that some people’s optimism is horse poop – oh your do great ! You’ll find him/her ! Etc all as they’re saying that’s your bit and I’m not helping. Do you ever realize how kind that is? As so often most wish us to learn passive aggressively didn’t you noticed I wasn’t there?
It’s is far easier to get a new/different perspective than it is to quickly change. One brings that smile or digs another one out ;). Smiles are so contagious.