you ever felt the avoidance vibe?
oh later! Shhh! (Later doesn’t come but an argument always an easy blame game too if why are you! Freaking out god I’m tired! Shut the :::: up!
choice and approach intersect.
all the caring in the world is not enough if the block is asked removed and remains.
smile with me
because it’s ok!
this is a truth that’s sticky
its easy to lose at 20 years before say my dad sought help with troubling times that eased quickly from ugly times as a Young’s adult at war. I didn’t serve yet even I can carry that similarity of troubles hard to shed we are similar often in family.
But hoping we come across as ease and trust is tough stuff!
Enduring the vengeance of others troubles is as knife!
hug just the same as it is to stare back saying don’t you abuse my caring to make magic miracles happen then dump me gone if I’m not a fix instead choose to say um no cure! You I’ll hang about to hug.
or don’t but remember it’s just a choice but the love is not. Caring is not easy as it’s work to make sure I stuff off the blame or resistance to let another see it’s ok! I’m here I’m not evil even if I have other annoying attributes